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Sunday, September 16, 2007

quilting question

Hi all,

I feel like I know so many of you because I read this blog almost daily, but I'm just a lurker (shy, I guess)....in fact when I went to log in, I surprised myself that I remembered how...and on the first try.

I'm writing now, because I really need some advice and support. I have a situation, and I would like some opinions as to what your response would be, or what you would do.
My DSIL told me that she has two old quilts from her mother that she would like to give to her granddaughters. She knows nothing about sewing of any kind and wondered if I would take a look at them and tell her what I thought about "fixing them up for the girls".
I said "sure, I would look at them" , assuming that these were pieced quilts that were worn and were in need of some repair.
Well, she brought the quilts to me today to look at, and when I saw them I was speechless. They are old utilitarian quilts that are of one peice of fabric, like a whole cloth quilt or a backing, with a seam down the middle and they are tied. The batting is the old cotton they used to call wadding (I think). VERY HEAVY. The fabric is very fragile, and stained. She then told me that one of the girls wanted a deep purple and the other wants a particular green, and pulled a paper napkin from her purse to show me exactly which green.

I began to realize that she wanted them "recovered?" I suggested she buy dovet covers and put over them. She said "Oh, no. I don't want to do that". I was too dumbfounded at that moment to say or ask anything more. She told me to think about it. I have done some thinking, but before I say any more, I would like some of your opinions and/or ideas.

What do you all think?

Harjo

10 Comments:

  • At September 16, 2007 at 4:56 PM , Blogger WhiteStone said...

    Sounds as if she wants you to make a silk purse out of a sow's ear. LOL. Sorry, just couldn't help it. Some people think that every "quilt" under the sun, regardless of whether it is currently threadbare with cotton showing through holes, seams pulling apart on 2/3 of the quilt .. they think this "quilt" is an heirloom worthy of the Smithsonian. The "quilt" you describe is not a quilt. It was made as a make-do thing to keep family members warm during the cold, dark nights of winter. Just because a great-grandmother or some other forebearer touched or made the quilt, doesn't mean it is salvageable or even worthy of being salvaged.

    Here's my advice and you can take it for what it is worth. Tell her that you simply do not have the time to do justice to this family keepsake. You would love to make it lovely for her, but it is beyond your expertise in repairing it.

    And having said that, I will admit that I repaired one such quilt. My DSIL brought me a baby quilt that she wanted repaired for her new granddaughter. The quilt had belonged to her son. It had been used as a dog blanket, smelled like a dog, was filled with a wadding of a batting, and the cute yellow ducky fabric was threadbare in places. Fortunately, I was able to take it apart, retrieve enough of the yellow ducky fabric, frame it in a solid yellow, and hand quilt it with a sturdy batting. I reminded her this was a fragile quilt and if it simply must be washed, to do so gently by hand.

    I can't imagine trying this with the quilt you mentioned. And I'm glad I'm not you. ROFLOL.

    JudyPete (who probably hasn't been of much help to you.) :-(

     
  • At September 16, 2007 at 5:03 PM , Blogger Judy in Ohio said...

    Just because something is old and belonged to somebody's great-grandma does not mean it is worth "passing on" to young women. Sometimes old things should be thrown away. These quilts are fragile, stained, the wrong color and lumpy? Pardon me but where's the redeeming value in these old heavy "has-beens".

    The kindest thing to say is "I feel those quilts have seen better days and I am sorry but I cannot help you." If she won't listen just say the same sentence over and over and over like a broken record.

    Judy

     
  • At September 16, 2007 at 5:10 PM , Blogger Beth in TN said...

    I'm with the Judys on this one, Harjo. These do not sound salvageable. About the most I would do with them would be to cut off a small piece (no more than a 12" square) and incorporate it into brand new quilts for the girls. The cost of fabric and the time you would invest would be utterly wasted on a project such as this because you are working with an unusable base. You could always use the analogy that you wouldn't build a house on an unstable foundation....

     
  • At September 16, 2007 at 11:35 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Your first response of duvet covers was wise, direct and the only idea worth consideration. It is okay to have a spine in this situation. Hang in there!
    Lindy

     
  • At September 17, 2007 at 1:50 AM , Blogger judy in ar said...

    The only thing I would add to the already given advice is to repeat your advice to her about using a duvet cover. If she is bound determined to use them, that is the most economic way. If she doesn't like that idea start talking about the hundreds of dollars it takes in fabric alone to make a quilt (cover or not) plus at least a hundred dollars for quilting etc. You can get these figures up so high, even she will eventually realize it is alas a sow's ear. I'm not laughing, but I also am glad I'm not in your shoes. This is a no win situation for you. Sigh. . . . . People who don't sew don't have a clue. I have a neighbor like this.

     
  • At September 17, 2007 at 9:49 AM , Blogger anna in spain said...

    If they want quilts in those colours, offer to take them shopping for fabric. They can pay for it, and you can a) offer to teach them a simple pattern or b) offer to make them a quilt in a simple pattern. In colours they like. In new fabric, that will last longer than five minutes.
    Give them 2 or different patterns to choose from--ones that you know you or they can make with minimum hassle. A non-sewer, non-quilter's eye always goes to that gorgeous, difficult, time-consuming option in a professional designer's magazine, so only offer the ones you know will be simple to do.

    If Mom really wants to have these old "quilts" salvaged, point her to a professional so she can find out just how much work is involved, and how much money they would want.

     
  • At September 17, 2007 at 8:48 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Oh you poor thing. I've seen that type of a quilt. Hand it back and say you haven't got the time to help her or think up some other excuse. Don't let her near you. She'll never understand the cost of doing something with it and you'll end up with all your personal quilting time wasted.

     
  • At September 18, 2007 at 4:56 PM , Blogger Judy in Ohio said...

    Okay, Harjo, it's time to let us know that you have heeded our sincere best advice!

    Judy

     
  • At September 19, 2007 at 4:05 AM , Blogger Lavinia said...

    Tell her to go take a quilting class and do it herself so that "part of her" will be in the "heritage" of these priceless objects. Hahahahahaha. Lavinia-TN

     
  • At September 19, 2007 at 6:47 PM , Blogger harjo said...

    Okey, I have talked to my DSIL about the situation, and explained that I went for further advice, and that I agree with all of you,(as I value your opinions, Highly). I guess she IS a rather understanding person, because, she said that she is okey with the quilts. But (as I lower my head) i did offer to make the girls a quilt from scratch as anna in spain suggested and "the girls would indeed like to have a quilt made by their talented AUNTIE HARLENE". I really don't mind doing that for them. It was the easiest out and will be fun.
    Thank you all so much for your support. I just wouldn't have had the gumption to tell her like it was, without your backing.
    I'll now go back to my lurking status, but you know that I will be making a couple of cool quilts this winter, I haven't told her yet but she does have to wait until I get my granddaughter's graduation quilt finished.LOL!
    I'll try to keep you posted as to the pattern that we use, and maybe even a picture eventually. That may even qualify me as a true blogger, yikes.

    Hugs, harjo

     

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